I know I have not written in awhile but things have been crazy in my life. With DH gone for work out of state thing began to spin slowly out of control. I began to feel lost and wasn’t sure where things were going anymore. We ended up taking a break from DD.
I have learned from the last few months that when you are made to submissive
(whether it is a deep desire rarely spoken of or something that anyone can see) when you begin to deny those feelings things will begin to spin faster and faster out of control. Things got worse and worse between until we began to wonder if it was over, if we were done.
I am so thankful for two stubborn people who love each other and refuse to give up! We began to talk and to look deeply at what was wrong and how we each were feeling. We realized that when things began to get crazy instead of stopping DD we needed to step it up. We need to become more involved in DD.
I realized that DD is one of those things in my life that I need. It grounds me and allows me to know where I belong. I know what my job is in my world and how to interact with the one I love the most. When we began to lose it I no longer felt secure. I felt like I was losing myself and that caused me to spin wildly out of control. That was because I was losing myself, why I no longer knew where I belonged. Being submissive, is part of how I was born, it is a part of who I am, so when I left it behind, I was leaving a piece of myself behind. I was tossing a piece of myself out.
I know now that I can’t change it, I can’t fight it and I won’t be ashamed of it!
how to tell if a woman is naturally submissive , is there any signs in her body language or behavior ?
thanks
Thank-you for sharing. I wish there were more discipline posting on here. I am trying to be more submissive. Sandy
evano a Dominant Man always sees the natural submission in any woman that has it.
The submissive component exists inside of most women. It is a natural ingredient of femininity. The problem in today’s world is that this compliance potential is usually buried under a mountain of ambition, competition, and domination. From an early age, modern women have been encouraged, taught, and rewarded for competing with men. As a result, these women have trouble letting go. Some even bring their game face into the bedroom.
Instinctively, women also know that so long as they are on their their feet or on their backs in bed, they are evenly matched with a man. Face down, across a man’s lap, they become vulnerable. This, too, breeds resistance to male authority.
Yet, independent women sense that always being in charge of their lives is a burden. In fact, workplace stress is harder on women than it is on men. Underneath the facade, there arises an urge to escape the responsibility by letting a man of her choosing have his way with her. Given appropriate circumstances in private with the right man, even a dragon lady likes being bossed around.
The universally understood symbolic act of feminine submission is winding up bare bottomed across a man’s knee. Once that is accomplished, Nature takes over from there.