I received my first switching this last weekend. I hadn’t really done anything wrong but we needed to reconnect. We were camping so there were not a lot of options so he decided to go with a switch. I tried to talk him into just using his hand but failed miserably. Since this was the first time I had felt a switch and I wasn’t in trouble he allowed me to keep my panties up (rarely happens) and he didn’t use full force.
It still stung like the dickens!!! I have always had a fear of the belt and the switch but he had never used one before. All I know is that I hope I never have to experience one when I am in trouble. The sting was awful and the way it would wrap around and strike other parts was awful.
So I promise to be a very good girl from here on out!
The switch really stings on the backs of the upper thighs!
Lucky for me he didn’t swing there!
The switch! Ahhh! I’ve only had to feel that a few times (once on the side of the road on a highway!)
But I feel for you. That thing stings!
Hey I was wondering if you or anyone else might have some advice for me on this… my man has just started to figure out that he likes the results of spanking me – at first he was really scared to hurt me, and the whole thing weirded him out. But as various instances have come up where he found it personally meaningful with my urgings to go ahead and spank me, and found a calmer, submitted, and softhearted girl clinging to him and thanking him when it was over, so he’s sorta been warming up to the idea 😉 But the one thing is – he won’t use anything but his hand. He’s afraid of becoming “s&m” and using an implement scares the living daylight out of him. While getting spanked with his hand is intimate and at least it’s a spanking, it doesn’t really hurt that much even if he swings hard, but when he swings hard later on it’s a lot of bruising and pain in my lower back. I’d LOVE it if he switched me instead…I know it would hurt worse, and cause less real damage because it doesn’t have as much weight/force as an arm. Any advice here?
I was wondering how you got on with DD.
would really be interested if you ended up doing it full time or not?
C
You definitely need to keep talking to him about it. I don’t prefer my husband’s hand either, it just doesn’t really hurt. A switch or a belt is a good idea, they hurt bad and don’t bruise. Good luck.