I love this song by Lady Antebellum
This is the most perfect song to describe how I feel about DH. This morning I was having a rough morning, just every day real life things getting to me and I started crying while he was on the phone. I try not to do this often because I know it’s hard on him because he is so far away. Yet he was not upset at all but instead just listened and showed sympathy.
It made me think about all my friends who have “vanilla” marriages and how often I listen to them talk about how alone they feel, and the fact that their husbands are never there for them. I feel so lucky to have a DD marriage. I know that no matter what I can always turn to him. I may end up getting spanked because of the way I handle something or the language I use but I would never trade not having spankings in my marriage for their marriages. I may have boundaries and rules and consequences but I also have unconditional love, safety, security, laughter and so many others things that I don’t see in a lot of “vanilla” marriages.