So I recently had some comments posted to my blog about how much women like me disgust her. How every women in a DD relationship has low self esteem and is crazy to allow her self to be abused this way. A real man would never agree to something like this and a real woman would never desire something like this. She also went on to URGE me to go to counseling and to leave my husband.
Now you are probably asking yourself at this point how was I feeling, you know was I upset or maybe angry? I was none of those things, in fact I found the whole thing quite sad and a little pathetic. First off to judge me based solely on the fact that I am in a CDD marriage shows me how truly closed minded she is. I have no problems at all with self esteem and am a very strong and accomplished women in my own right. I have worked for many campaigns most of which have been successful. I am well respected and sought after in my community. I don’t submit because I feel like I am less then him, I submit because I choose to. In fact I believe it takes a stronger woman to submit then it does to be a woman who fights and feels like they must be in control at all times.
Second I am not abused, very far from it in fact, I am one of the most spoiled women I know. I am listened to, taken care of, treated like a lady. I am constantly being bought gifts and my husband makes me one of the top priorities in his life. He takes me out for dinner, takes me away for weekends, helps with the kids and the house. He listens to my likes and dislikes and tries his best to keep things within those. Now, does he also hold me responsible for my behavior? Yes! Does that mean I am abused? They very idea is laughable!
I am spanked wife and I am proud of that. I am proud that my husband will blister my bottom when needed. I am Proud that I am married a man that I can’t push around.